Whether you’re waiting for your first sign from a deceased loved one or seeking confirmation about a sign you’ve already received, seeing a medium can help you make or reaffirm a meaningful connection. Mediums read energy and interpret signals they receive from the spirit world and can help you establish communication. Here is what you need to know before, during, and after your appointment.
Get a recommendation from a trusted source.
It’s important to go to a medium with a good reputation both online and by word of mouth. The best mediums incorporate healing work into their sessions and receive specific, significant messages from your loved ones. That is why they are often booked for months, sometimes years, in advance.
Look for communication via signs and dreams while you wait.
Patience is key when awaiting signs from those who have passed. If you receive a signal before your appointment, that’s great news! Your medium can reaffirm and even expand upon the message for you.
Set the intention of connecting with your loved one.
Clear your mind and know deep in your heart that you will make a connection. You can even visualize the soul in question and tell him or her that you would like to connect.
Bring a picture or a significant object of your loved one.
This is not to give away information to the medium; in fact, it’s a good idea to keep your item stashed away until very specific details have been revealed. Having a tangible object will help you and your medium better connect with the right person’s energy at your meeting.
Be open to receiving whatever is coming through.
Sometimes a reading will present you with information that you don’t understand at the time, and that’s okay. Know that the message is coming through because it was meant to – so remember to remain open-minded to symbols that might make sense later on. (What this doesn’t mean is accepting messages that don’t resonate with you).
Don’t despair if no contact is made.
Sometimes it’s just not the right time, or the spirit you’re seeking is not there. Mediums can’t make souls enter the room. Also, spirits that have been gone a long time are not as anxious to come through as when they first passed. Don’t worry, though — it’s not impossible to connect with them, just a little harder.
After your appointment, you should feel great!
Knowing your deceased loved one is okay and aware of what’s going on in your world feels wonderful. Make sure to share your experience with family and friends to help them along in their healing process.
Continue to ask for “without a doubt” signs.
Although one reading is generally all that’s needed to connect with your deceased loved one, there’s no limit on how many signs you can receive on your own. You can always see a medium again if you would like additional messages and healing, but the best kind of connection happens when your deceased loved one comes and gives information directly to you.